Jasbar wrote:
I don't understand this.
Why would it be OK if you were the only girl in the group? And how would other females being in the group change things.
If I was the only girl I wouldn't go to another bar on my own, it's that simple. If there were other girls and they didn't want to go to another bar I'd quite happily tag along to wherever. Watching lap dancers do their stuff means nothing and wouldn't necessarily stem the flow of conversation and giggles. It's just a bit of fun. Perhaps you're looking too deeply into this than is necessary

Jasbar wrote:
And it occurs to me that I wouldn't want to take a female to see other females stripping.
You're clearly from the 'old school'

Of course.
And thanks for that.
And you're probably right.