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Need some advice
Hi folks
I am in the process of applying for my private hire with a council in Scotland.
I am in my early 30's I have no previous criminal convictions, never arrested, never detained. I have a clean driving license, last penalty 2010 for mobile, no insurance 2006 and SP30 in 2005, thats it. I am medically fit, light drinker/no smoking etc.
However, The following monday after applying for my license on the friday I was charged with two offenses;
Voyeurism. coercing someone into looking at a sexual image.
To summerise, met this girl (32), very steamy, over 20 'sexual images' passed over the course of the relationship from day 1 (she sent the first), and they are all through Facebook private messaging. Great in the beginning as usual, then the relationship broke down, loads of trust issues, very up and down the whole thing had plate lobbed at me. She felt i didnt like her, I did, found out she was going to meet another guy, end.
she works at the local fuel station where I would fuel up at work, coming into contact with all my ex colleagues (150 of us) She'd been with other guys, and over time i'd heard things from her (sexual) that i shouldnt hear about other people. She baited me saying she was going to have 'good banter' with my ex colleagues. I paniced, (just lost my job and felt very insecure) and said keep it shut, how would you like it if I showed people these (previous pictures) another big fight, I said right i'm away for rebound, went out, got rebound, then drunkenly sent her a picture of me with another bird (sexual)
Police pulled me in, I told them my side, they charged me with both offenses, went to court, they dropped voyeurism (she had no right to accuse me of that, you dont smile at the camera when you dont know its there!) but kept the coercing someone to look at a sexual image, with a court date 1st Jan 15
Council put me through medical etc then wrote to me saying i have a meeting with the subcommittee and enclosed a copy of the police report also saying 'i am unfit for license'
I know I have made a real error of judgement here, I am genuinely sorry - I didn't even know what it meant to 'coerce someone into looking at a sexual image'
I'm not a child molester or a rapist or whatnot, but for all the good I may as well have been.
All pictures were taken on my and her smart phones All sent thought facebook private messenger All private, never public
I am serious about the taxis, I do take my work seriously, 13 years in tough customer environments, I work well, with feedback surveys and employee of the month etc to prove that. Made redundant through non fault. I have over 40 character references from managers, QC', lawyers, Cabbies, nurses...
I appreciate you will all turn your nose up at this but I would very much benefit from some good advice.
Thanks in advance.
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