Nidge2 wrote:
grandad wrote:
How can you say that when the chap has been jailed.
Why did they send children all the way down to London unsupervised? Surely the kids would have said something. Remember the same thing happened in Rotherham.
I don't think the kid was sent to London. I doubt the care home were aware that she had even been to London Until she returned. I know we live in different times now but at 14 years old I and a mate of mine would travel the country, albeit with our parents permission, To watch football matches.
I remember when my ex wife and I were going through training to be foster carers. One of the scenarios put to us was "what would you do if the 15 year old girl that had been placed with you didn't come home until 02.00 in the morning? We went through the usual stuff that any parent would so you can imagine our surprise when the social worker's response was that they would look upon this situation as a positive because in her previous placement she would stay out all night.
You have to look at a much wider picture on this and whilst we all pretty much agree that this particular kind of behaviour, taking advantage of and grooming vulnerable children, from a certain type of man should result in him having his balls removed with a blunt knife at the very least. Lets not forget that in a lot of cases of under age sex the under age person is a willing participant because as we all know sex is a pleasurable thing and whether we like it or not young girls and boys will always want to try things out before they are legally allowed to do so. Now weather every instance of underage sex is abusive or not is a very grey area in many peoples eyes. For instance do any of you see any difference between a 15 year old girl being groomed by an older person and her having, what to her is a very nice pleasurable experience, because she doesn't realise that she has been groomed? and a fifteen year old schoolgirl who has been going out with a classmate for 2 years but he is now 16 and them having a very close intimate relationship where they also have intercourse?